“In a powerful call to action, Lieutenant Ebude Ekinde Dorah is breaking the silence around domestic violence against men in Cameroon. As a dedicated officer and community leader, she’s championing a crucial cause: creating a safe space for men just like women, to speak out about their experiences.”
Speaking to The Ultimate ahead of the International Women’s Day, she said though much focused is on violence against women, “it’s essential to acknowledge a lesser-known issue: domestic violence against men. Society can support men in this situation. As well.” She added.
According to Lieutenant Ebude, men often suffer in silence due to societal expectations and shame. To break this silence, she emphasizes the importance of dialogue and counselling. “Engaging in dialogue and counselling is key,” she says, highlighting the need for a safe space for men to open up.
As a community leader, Lieutenant Dorah practices what she preaches. She’s involved in various initiatives, including sponsoring girl children to school and counselling women in crisis. Her advice to women in her region is equally applicable to supporting men in domestic violence: diversify income sources, acquire new skills, and change mindsets.
To support men, society needs to shift its perspective. “Men are not alone; they need support and compassion too,” Lieutenant Dorah implies. By creating a culture where men feel comfortable speaking out, we can help them address their situation.
As we celebrate Women’s Day, let’s extend our support to men experiencing domestic violence. Let’s work together to break the stigma and create a society where everyone can speak out without fear of judgment.
In her extra curricular activities, the Gendarmerie Lieutenant serves as Secretary General of Nyasoso Cultural and Development Association, NYACUDA. She composes songs and anthem in akose (Bakossi dialect) for NYACUDA and Nyasoso Wives and Daughters Association, NYAWIDDA. Through her initiative, Boissons du Cameroun donated 10 computers and one printer each to GBHS Bangem and GHS Nyasoso in 2025.
Lieutenant Ebude hails from Nyasoso, Tombel Sub Division, Kupe Muanenguba Division.
By Olive Ejang
